Monday, March 23, 2015

3/18/15 - Getting Touchy - Prayer Through Touch

3/18/15 - Getting Touchy - Prayer Through Touch

Do you ever feel uncomfortable when people lay their hands on you when they pray for you?  There actually may be something legitimate, and even scientific, to the effects of prayer by touch.

Check out this video of Lance Luria speaking at a medical conference about The Power of Touch:


The exciting thing about this clip is it is an MD speaking to a lot more professionals about how mere person to person physical contact can be a stronger impact on someone's chemical makeup than many drugs.

Here is a screen shot from the talk detailing some of their findings:

We spoke about interesting circumstances where people would use touch to influence (even manipulate) others.  One scientific study measured greater petition participation from passers by when they were engaged in physical contact compared to when they were only asked to sign.  Are there circumstances in which you feel more impressionable when physical touch is applied?

Coincidentally enough I was working on my computer at a local cafe the morning of the day we were going to meet about this topic.  I was there for about five hours (which is far longer than most of their clientele) and eventually a very friendly busser/food runner stopped by my table.  He put his hand on my shoulder and with a wide smile asked if I would like to join their mailing list.  I noted how his approach alone had me ready to accept his invitation even before I registered what he had actually asked.

It's amazing what an extra second while shaking hands, a hug, or merely gently touching someone's shoulder can do to change someone's outlook.

Additionally, there are further studies regarding touch as a medical treatment.  One great article is here: http://www.homehelpersphilly.com/blog/bid/38832/The-Importance-of-Touch-When-Caring-for-the-Elderly

This week, be sure to pray when others and when you do make a point to touch them either by holding hands or placing your hand on his/her shoulder.




Oh, and for those of us singles who think they are the only ones who long for a hug...


Friday, March 13, 2015

3/12/15 - Creating 1s 0s and Changing Your World - Prayer Through Meditation

3/12/15 - Creating 1s 0s and Changing Your World - Prayer Through Meditation

Exercise: Meditation 3min

Start this exercise by immediately turning off all distractions (TV, music, etc.) and find a comfortable position for three minutes of meditation.  It's OK if you've never practiced meditation before, just do what you think you should, but close your eyes and remain quiet for the full three minutes.

What did you do?  What did you think about?  Was there anything in particular that you focused on?  A word, your breath, prayer?


Jesus and Meditation

What are some of your preconceptions of the act of meditation?  Many Christians (and Westerners in general) view the act of meditation as an Eastern religion practice (be Hinduism, Buddhism, etc.).

The word "meditation" is an umbrella term and to many people prayer falls under the term - which, of course, followers of Christ are encouraged to do.  Jesus spent 40 days in the desert, many theologians suggest that much of that time was meditation - there certainly was a lot of prayer involved.


Types of Meditation

As mentioned before, there are many different types of meditation so here is a detailed view of the most common types:

Types of Meditation

Concentrative Meditation In this practice the objective is to cultivate a single-pointed attention on some object, such as a sound, an image, the breath, or a flame. Through the training of consistently returning to the object of focus, the mind develops the capacity to remain calm, stabilized, and grounded. Many Western meditation teachers start beginners with this practice, most commonly focusing on the breath. In some advanced practices, states of bliss may be reached. The most well-known and researched form of the concentrative type in the West is Transcendental Meditation (TM).

Open Awareness The objective of these forms of meditative practices is to open the mind into a panoramic awareness of whatever is happening without a specific focus. Often this awareness is compared to the spacious sky or a river with objects floating by. The capacity to be present with whatever arises is developed through this practice. The Zen sitting practice zazen, or shikantaza, is an example of this form of meditation practiced in the West.

Mindfulness The most popular, widely adapted, and widely researched meditation technique in the West is known asmindfulness meditation, which is a combination of concentration and open awareness. Mindfulness is found in many contemplative traditions, but is most often identified with the Theravadan Buddhist practice of vipassana, or “insight meditation.” The practitioner focuses on an object, such as the breath, bodily sensations, thoughts, feelings, or sounds. The focus is not as narrow as in concentrative meditation, for there is a simultaneous awareness of other phenomena. This mindfulness practice is often extended to daily actions, such as eating, walking, driving, or housework. The contemporary Western adaptation is typically removed from the rigorous contemplative training method of empirical introspection traditionally associated with Buddhism, which has as its objective the development of equanimity and clarity of perception.


Guided Meditation All forms of meditation can be guided, and many are often practiced with recorded or in-person guidance at first, and then later with decreasing need for explicit guidance. In one form, called guided imagery, the practitioner follows auditory guidance from a teacher or recording that elicits certain images, affirmations, states (such as peacefulness), or imagined desired experiences. Guided imagery is popular in the West to facilitate health and well-being and is often used to rehearse successful outcomes of procedures, such as surgery or an athletic performance.

Take a moment while reviewing those types of meditation and decide which one applies most to what you were doing in the initial 3min exercise.  Which of them would you like to try?


Video Excerpt

Watch this video which talks about intention and the physical impact of your thoughts, prayers, and meditation on the world around you.


Alright, there's a lot to unpack there!  Quantum mechanics, random number generators (RNG), creating a universe, etc.  Let's not get too caught up in the details of it as they threw concepts that could each take days or years to dissect in a mere 4min video.  Rather, let's focus on the random number generators.

These machines randomly produce zeros and ones (like a coin flip) and statistically one would assume that the greater amount of numbers produced the closer to a 50:50 split it would be.  People would put intent in imagining more zeros than ones (for instance) with one particular generator and after time meditating over this guess what happened: it worked!  And we're not talking 51:49 difference, we're are talking about a difference which nearly statistically impossible.

What's more, there are many of these generators around the world and they are impacted by human thoughts and feelings during huge events.  One example is when 9/11 occurred some scientists revisited the records for RNGs for that day and discovered more huge fluctuations on that day.  Similar trends are seen during Obama's first election, as well as the Olympic Games.  This suggests that there is a physical power emitting from humans experiencing similar emotions which directly impact these generators.

Alright, that sounds somewhat irrelevant but take a minute to ponder it.  What power do you have in the Holy Spirit when you can focus your mind and intent on Him?  Now revisit that list of types of meditation and decide which you would like to practice next knowing how much of an impact it can be.


Exercise: Meditation 5min

Try meditating again and see what your feelings are now.


Homework

Challenge yourself to meditate at your level of comfort for two times per day for the next week: five minutes in the morning, five minutes in the afternoon.


Biblical Reference

Romans 12:2
"Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will."

Psalm 46:10
"He says, “Be still, and know that I am God; I will be exalted among the nations, I will be exalted in the earth.”

Monday, March 9, 2015

This is Your Brain on Prayer: Introduction to Prayer Styles

3/4/15 - This is Your Brain on Prayer: Introduction to Prayer Styles

Watch this three minute video to see the neurological impact that prayer has on a believer vs a non-believer https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zjp83_BtvO8


Notice how prayer for a believer is a literal conversation (neurologically) with someone: with God.

This about prayer scenarios which you particularly enjoy and/or feel connected.  Here are some examples from others asked:

  • Prayer after a meeting so that there is some direction
  • When you feel it is lead by Holy Spirit
  • When new Christians (especially children) pray
  • Popcorn style (where people in a group can pray when they want without obligation or parameters)
  • Authentic/genuine prayer
  • When someone prayers for me and it fits my situation (whether or not they knew it would beforehand)


Think about prayer scenarios which make you uncomfortable.  Here are some examples from others asked:

  • When people place their hands on me
  • When I'm expected to say a prayer without any further context such as grace before a meal in front of strangers
  • Going around in a circle, essentially requiring everyone to pray
  • Speaking in tongues without translation
  • When someone prays for me out loud without asking me first
  • Meditation
  • "Olde English" style of prayer which makes people feel like they need to have "holy words" to speak in front of people
Now, pick one that makes you slightly uncomfortable and challenge yourself to pray in such a way.